High Tea Party Ideas for Adults
There’s something undeniably charming about a high tea party. It’s a chance to feel a little fancy, gather with friends, and sip tea like you’re starring in a period drama all without the corsets, thank goodness! Whether you’re planning a birthday, bridal shower, or just want an excuse to wear a cute dress, a high tea party is the perfect way to celebrate. And let’s be honest, sometimes it’s just nice to have adult conversation over dainty sandwiches without kids interrupting every five seconds. If you’re thinking about hosting one, I’ve got you covered with ideas that are simple, elegant, and totally doable (even if you’re not exactly Martha Stewart).
Setting the Scene
Decor That Dazzles
A high tea party deserves an atmosphere as delightful as the event itself. But don’t worry you don’t need to blow your budget to create a dreamy vibe. Start with your table. Layer a crisp white or pastel tablecloth as the base, and if you have a lace overlay, even better. Centerpieces can be as simple as fresh flowers in mason jars or vintage teapots.
Think roses, peonies, or even a mix of wildflowers for a whimsical touch. Break out the fancy dishes even if they’re mismatched! There’s a charming “grandmillennial” vibe to mismatched china that makes the table feel cozy and chic. If you don’t have fine china, thrift stores are a treasure trove for affordable pieces.
Candles or fairy lights can add a soft glow, especially if your party stretches into the evening. Opt for unscented candles so they don’t compete with the aroma of your teas and treats. Napkins folded neatly, cute place cards, and a few vintage teaspoons will tie everything together. Bonus points if you can find tiered serving trays to display all those delicious snacks.
Sip, Sip, Hooray
The Tea Menu Tea is the star of the show, so you’ll want a variety to suit everyone’s tastes. Here’s how to keep your tea selection on point. Offer a mix of classics like Earl Grey, English Breakfast, and Darjeeling, herbal options like chamomile, peppermint, or lavender blends, and fun fruity teas like raspberry, peach, or chai for a spicy kick. Provide milk, lemon slices, sugar cubes, and honey on the side so guests can customize their cups. And if you’re feeling adventurous, add a sparkling iced tea or tea-based cocktail for a modern twist.
Sweet & Savory
The Food Spread A high tea menu is all about balance you need a mix of sweet and savory bites that are easy to eat but still feel indulgent. For savory options, finger sandwiches are a must. Go classic with cucumber and cream cheese or try smoked salmon with dill, egg salad, or chicken salad. Mini quiches are a crowd-pleaser and can be made ahead of time. A small charcuterie board with cheese and crackers never hurts.
On the sweet side, scones with clotted cream and jam are non-negotiable. Store-bought scones work fine, but if you’re feeling ambitious, homemade is always impressive. Add mini desserts like macarons, eclairs, or tiny cupcakes, and round things out with shortbread, sugar cookies, or anything dunk-worthy. Arrange your treats on tiered trays for that quintessential tea party look savories on the bottom, scones in the middle, and sweets on top.
Dress Code
Fancy but Fun Encourage your guests to dress up for the occasion. Floaty dresses, floral prints, or even a touch of vintage glam will add to the ambiance. And don’t forget the hats! A fun DIY station with faux flowers, ribbons, and plain straw hats could be a hit, letting guests create their own tea party toppers.
Fun Activities to Keep the Party Flowing
Once everyone has had their fill of tea and treats, you can keep the good vibes going with a few fun activities. Set up a tea-tasting station where guests can sample different teas. Provide a little card with tasting notes and encourage everyone to rate their favorites.
Offer a DIY tea blend station with jars of loose-leaf teas and dried herbs like rose petals, mint, or citrus peels, so guests can create their own custom blends to take home as a party favor. Test everyone’s knowledge with a lighthearted tea trivia quiz. Did you know that tea is the second most consumed beverage in the world? (Water takes first place.)
Favors That Say “Thank You”
Send your guests home with a little something to remember the day. Small tins of loose-leaf tea, mini jars of honey, a cute teacup or saucer from a thrift store, or homemade cookies or scones wrapped in cellophane with a ribbon are all thoughtful options.
Hosting Tips
Prep ahead so you’re not stuck in the kitchen while everyone else is having fun. You don’t need to have 10 different types of sandwiches or desserts a few well-chosen options will do the trick. If a friend offers to bring something, say yes! It’s one less thing on your plate. Most importantly, relax and enjoy. Your guests are there to spend time with you, not to critique your tea-steeping skills. Have fun and savor the moment.
Hosting a high tea party is a wonderful way to bring a touch of elegance and fun into your life, even if it’s just for an afternoon. With a little planning and a lot of love, you can create an experience that your friends will be talking about for months. So dust off your teapot, dig out your fanciest dress, and get ready to sip in style. Cheers to tea, treats, and time with good friends!
